Sunday, July 17, 2022

God Our Guest

Every day of our lives God approaches us in many different disguises, hungry for our hospitality, hungry for our company and the love of our hearts.  We often complain that God has deserted us, that he doesn’t answer our prayers, that he doesn’t take pity on our sufferings.  Today’s readings tell us otherwise: they tell us that we are the ones who do not know how to deal with the fact that, if anything, God has perhaps come too close for comfort, though maybe we may be looking for him only ways that flatter our vanity or indulge our self-centeredness.  In our readings God approaches man in ways that are mysterious, disorienting and challenging.  God, the Almighty, presents himself often in forms of neediness that deceive our logic and that challenge us to lay aside our haughtiness and laziness in order to become servants of anyone in need.  Indeed, the concept of service is the common thread of all three readings.

On a very hot day in the desert, Abraham, no longer young, becomes the servant of three tired, hungry and thirsty young wayfarers who turn out to be angels and who together represent the coming to Abraham of God himself. The Fathers came to see in this scene an early prefigurement of the Blessed Trinity, and this interpretation has become emblematic in Andrei Rublev’s famous icon.  But Abraham didn’t know whom he was dealing with as he ran around in the dust and heat trying to prepare the best possible meal.  He thought he was merely showing the hospitality required by common decency, and yet the whole while he was embracing the living God right by his tent!  In return God blessed the sterile Sarah and gave them Isaac as a divine reward.  Abraham was looking for nothing for himself, and yet, because of his selfless hospitality, he got an heir—that, is everything hoped for according to the Jewish mentality.

The Gospel, in turn, shows us that the greatest—though not the only—way of showing hospitality to God is … to listen to his Word, to receive what he has come to give us.  Even at the purely human level, one of the most important aspects of loving is knowing how to receive love.  How could this not be all the truer when we realize that God has, literally, everything to give us?  The problem with Martha is not at all that she was bent on fulfilling all her duties as head of her household by cooking, serving at table, and so on.  Her problem is expressed clearly in the two little adjectives “anxious and worried”.  Martha has allowed temporal concerns to take up the whole of her life, to the point of resentment against her sister Mary.  We must be both Martha and Mary, that is, after giving God what little we may have to offer, we must be wise enough to stop, become receptive, hospitable in our heart, and offer him our attention.  We must welcome Christ’s active presence within us. 

True hospitality of the heart isn’t blind activism; it should combine service and receptivity, the willingness to sit down with the guest to give him a chance to be himself with us, to give us what he has brought specifically for us.  God wants to rule in us as Lord, Teacher and Lover of our souls; he does not want us to kidnap him in a recruitment effort and turn him into a convenient laborer for our own projects.  We must discern which is “the better part” of Christian existence, the center, that which will never pass or grow old: and that is doubtless contemplation, our interior communion with God.  All else must flow from this, and there will not be any fruitful works of charity if anxiety and busyness disconnect us from the vital source of Love.

As St. Paul shows us, our primary service to “the body of Christ, which is the Church” must consist in “bringing to completion the Word of God”, showing forth the full mystery of God’s presence among us: we are stewards of this presence, of “Christ in [us], the hope of glory”.  The greatest form of hospitality, the greatest possible form that service of both God and man can take in us, is for us to show forth by the quality of our words, deeds and very presence that we “fill up in our flesh what is lacking in the afflictions of Christ”.  What could be possibly lacking in the perfect sufferings of Christ?  Only this: that I allow them to have their full effect in my whole person, so that, in a mysterious way, my manner of life will beam forth Christ’s presence to the world.

At this holy table this morning, Christ offers us his hospitality.  He wants to nourish us with is Word and Sacrament, that is, with his own substance, that he may bring risen life, joy and courage to our hearts and that we may then do the same for others.  Let us always eagerly and wisely choose with Mary this “better part”, which will never be taken from us.

Christ with the Peasants, Fritz von Uhde, c. 1888, oil on panel, Musée d'Orsay, Paris.  Homily by Father Simeon.